Getting What You Want

Galatians 6:7
Do not be deceived, God is not mocked; for whatever a man sows, that he will also reap.

To get what we want, it is often a relatively straight-forward solution - we need to put the vision in front of us set in a relative distant future, take the appropriate consistent actions leading us towards that distant future, overcome potential barriers, and keep going until we get there.

This is a fact.

The converse is true - if we want something, that'd mean that we have the ideas, dreams and visions in front of us, but if we don't take appropriate consistent action leading to our dream, overcome the barriers that stand in our way, or keep going until we get there - we won't get there. Those dreams stay as dreams. This came to my mind just today, because as you know, I'm also a hand therapist, and I had a patient who had a very stiff wrist following and injury...but throughout the therapy, eventhough I was ultra gentle with her and her wrist, she was pushing my hands away and pulling her hands away each time I did gentle stretches with her. She wanted the end results of a smooth and good moving wrist...but didn't want the effort, pain and time required to put in to get the results. The magic of managing stiffness is gradual and gentle stretches, sustained over time.

As I pondered over this, my mind started co-relating rehabilitation with life and business.

There's so many people I know that want the end results of their dreams, such having having their dream business, starting a side line, working their dream job, saving more, traveling more, forgive more...and whatever that allows them to live their best lives ever...but they don't. They let fear, uncertainty and doubt stop them. Some stop at the very start, some give up halfway, some give up near the finishing line.

I will not let you do that to yourself.

You deserve more.

You deserve to live the best life ever.

You see, to get to where we want to go, we always need to

  • Visualize and Dream: put the vision in front of us set in a relative distant future,

  • Take appropriate consistent actions leading us towards that distant future,

  • Overcome barriers that stand in our way

  • Keep going until we get there.

Yes, it seems overly simplified.

It seems overwhelming, overbearing and scary to manage the usual FUD (fear, uncertainty, doubt). It's okay, you start where you are. Don't press down your thoughts or numb your fears. Choose to live consciously. It's okay.

It's okay to choose to live.

It's okay to choose yet struggle.

It's okay to fail sometimes, as long as you pick yourself up, and keep going.

It's okay if people laugh at us.

It's okay if we cry.

It's okay.

Readers of NigelChua.com are savvy, sophisticated and smart. I am confident that eventhough we're not perfect, we're more than able to make smart decisions, overcome trials, and get to where we want to. You can and will get to where you want to go.

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To your best life ever.

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Priorities I Care About

  1. Personal Salvation: Jesus Christ & God
  2. Personal Vibrant Health & Wellness: Fix your health and get healthy/healthier
  3. Passive Income Lifestyle: Become financially secure by building assets that provides multiple streams of passive income that's more than your living expenses
  4. Personal Loving Relationships: Attract, build and grow relationships you love
  5. Philanthropy: give to the poor and needful
  6. Philosophy: Conscious, purposeful and positive living
  7. Productivity: How to become more efficient and productive in less time
  8. Bonus Adventures: Become rich and wealthy
  9. Bonus Adventures: Build businesses that adds positive value to your society and life

Things I Think About/Mull Over:

  1. Principled Winning: Win-Win-Win For Everyone
  2. Positive, Principled, Good, Character & Value Based Living
  3. Make space for serendipity in your life
  4. Become aware of your emotions, thoughts
  5. Wake Up
  6. Start Where You Are
  7. Optimization, Progress & Growth Mindset
  8. Optimization, Progress & Growth Decisions & Actions
  9. Pareto's 80/20 Rule & Minimum Effective Dose
  10. Majoring on Majors, Not On Minors
  11. Build Success Habits, Routines And Systems
  12. Finding Your Purpose & Living It
  13. First Things First
  14. Beatitudes
  15. Gratitude
  16. Kindness
  17. Forgive
  18. Choose Love, Good And Greater Good
  19. Make The World A Better Place Without Killing Yourself
  20. Faith, Hope, Love
  21. Be Curious
  22. Walk The Talk And Let Your Walk Do The Talking
  23. Walk Away From Things, People And Stuff That Takes Away From You
  24. Do It Now
  25. Factor In Slack/Downtime (You're Not A Robot)
  26. Win-Win-Win (All Win Approach)
  27. Death Is Certainty (Frailty & Shortness Of Life) So Make Life Meaningful
  28. Make Space For Serendipity
  29. Make Space For Christ/Ginosko Spiritual Encounters
  30. More

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