Disliking Surprises

I have confirmed that I don't really enjoy surprises, and I also don't really enjoy trying to give surprises to people.

  • Perhaps it's because of my inherent fear that if I try to surprise someone, it'd backfire if the person actually got an unpleasant shock, or says "try harder" (which explains my disdain for people who like to "work others hard to feel significant").

  • Perhaps it's my dislike of having to say or show that I was pleasantly surprised though I wasn't, and I had to show it so that the people who try to surprise me so that they feel good about themselves.

  • Perhaps it's because of my life, business and investment experiences - I prefer things to be stable, status quo and the same, so that I can never be surprised. Surprises have often been painful and uncomfortable, that I need to quickly take specific life, business and investment decisions to turn things around (an example is how life threw me a surprise in my father's passing after 17 days of hospitalization, comatosed, AFTER my 5-year-delayed honeymoon)

I prefer not to give or receive surprises where I can help it. It's stressful, and I prefer to have my own time and space. I prefer to be me.

Where to next?

A) Take a look at my Books and buy whichever interests you =)

B) Tools & Resources I use to improve my life

  1. Christianity: Bible Gateway & Verse of the day (free)
  2. Website + Digital Marketing for small / service business: Solo Build It
  3. Health: 
    a. Xtend Life Total Balance Men's Premium Multivitamins
    b. Xtend Life Kiwi Klenz (Gut Health) 
    c. VigRX Plus (Bigger, harder & long-lasting erections)
    d. Brita Everyday Elite Water Filter Pitcher / Jug

C) Topics & things that interest me

  1. Eternal life and salvation: Jesus Christ the Way, the Truth & the Life
  2. Fix Your Health: Get healthier, live longer, run faster, more energy, fuck more
  3. Passive Income Lifestyle: Build financial security by buying & building assets that provides you recurring passive income.
  4. Loving Relationships: Attract, build, grow & maintain relationships you love
  5. Leadership & Fatherhood: Leading by example, communication & consistency.
  6. Philanthropy: Giving to projects & people you care about.
  7. Active Philosophy: Conscious, Purposeful Faith, Hope & Love
  8. Productivity & Effectiveness: Doing what matters most with less and ease.
  9. Insure yourself and your loved ones (Health insurance is important)
  10. Add-on Adventures: Become rich and wealthy
  11. Add-on Adventures: Build businesses that adds positive value to your society and life
  12. Success Principles

D) Visit the Blog for latest articles and updates

E) Back to Homepage

Take action TODAY: One year from today, you'll be one year older. What would you have done by then?


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